im just sharing MY OWN experience with Iranian girls, no im not bitter, in fact most of the Iranian girls ive met seem to find me attractive and i find them physically attractive but not personality wise.
And what does skin colour and hair colour have to do with it, i have Iranian friends and relatives who are white as it comes but still dont fit in with the westerners and prefer the company of Iranians. the way you are talking everybody should just stick to their skin colour when it comes to women, so why the hell are we living together in one place then, to just be segregated and not make contact with anyone else? and why are there so many mixed race couples nowadays? because we are all human and have different tastes
Also i want to say that i go to Uni in a pretty upper-class area, most of the Iranian girls ive seen come from wealthy backgrounds, so my views may be askewed, but thats what ive seen so far. I have to agree with you that i will always be Iranian, no matter how long i live here and i will never be fully accepted as a part of this society.
Finally i want to say i never meant to offend you guys, im sorry if i did, its just as you said maybe im a little confused and 'gharb zade' but i cant help it, i grew up in an all-white suburb, there were only 2 Iranian kids beside me in my school before i came to Uni. As you say, i really struggled to be included there, but nontheless some things are programmed in you along the way and im really sorry that i dont belong to neither the Iranian culture nor the Western one, just some f'ed up version of both.