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    Quote Originally Posted by ChaharMahal View Post
    It is really natural for a dude trying to cheat. it is a primal instinct in male species to spread his genes to ensure continuity procreation of his off springs.
    Who says so?! Except Nahjolbalagheh and other Hozie Elmieh references! :P Those dudes, as Iran-Esteghlal said, can get a divorce and continue their 'procreation of their off springs' as much as they wish!

    Quote Originally Posted by artavile View Post
    Or start wearing gloves
    LOOL! Your typical noble and funny ideas. So good to 30 u Artavile jan. ))
    NilouKia

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niloufar View Post
    Who says so?! Except Nahjolbalagheh and other Hozie Elmieh references! :P Those dudes, as Iran-Esteghlal said, can get a divorce and continue their 'procreation of their off springs' as much as they wish!
    very funny. it is well established hypothesis in scientific community that maybe, just maybe monogamy is not all that natural. it was sort of accident.
    Monogamy is neither good nor bad. it is just what it is. trying make sacred institution out of it is more like Hozie Elmieh or fundamentalist church thinking.



    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/bever..._b_867760.html
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.c7c33f992cb3
    https://www.princeton.edu/~pswpc/pdf...del/060807.pdf
    “It is better to be roughly right than precisely wrong”


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    Quote Originally Posted by ChaharMahal View Post
    very funny. it is well established hypothesis in scientific community that maybe, just maybe monogamy is not all that natural. it was sort of accident.
    Monogamy is neither good nor bad. it is just what it is. trying make sacred institution out of it is more like Hozie Elmieh or fundamentalist church thinking.



    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/bever..._b_867760.html
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.c7c33f992cb3
    https://www.princeton.edu/~pswpc/pdf...del/060807.pdf
    Nobody said don't have relationship with 100 girls at the same time but don't get married. Pure and simple. Once you give your commitment to someone, that means you agree like any contract in life.
    If you break it without the other person know, then that is the wrong thing to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niloufar View Post
    LOOL! Your typical noble and funny ideas. So good to 30 u Artavile jan. ))
    Thanks Nilou jan, not sure when your returned to ISP but it's so nice to see you again. Hope all is well.
    If he is our future, we are history.....

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    مرد و زن در این مورد
    یعنی دنبال سکس گشتن با هم خیلی فرق میکنند
    زن اگر مردی رو واقعا دوست داشت امکان نداره بهش خیانت جنسی بکنه
    ولی مرد اینطور نیست
    ممکن عاشق همسرش هم باشه وواقعا اون رو بپرسته
    ولی خیلی کم پیش میاد خیانت نکنه اگر همه چیز برای خیانت کردن مهیا باشه
    مثلا همین یارو اگر بیاد به من بگه که عاشق همسرم هستم و واقعا دوستش دارم و می پرستمش من باور میکنم
    اگر رومیو و ژولیت به هم می رسیدند و تا اخر عمر رومیو به همان شکل عاشق ژولیت بود
    باز امکان اینکه مثلا با یک دختر دیگه بخوابه بود
    نه اینکه عشقق به ژولیت به سردی گراییده یا اینکه تو رختخواب حال نمیده
    اکثر زنها اینطور نیستند بلکه می توان نادر می توان یافت زنی را که عاشق شورش باشد و از نظر سکس به مرد دیگری میل داشته باشد
    درصورتی که در مردها این برعکس است
    یعنی بسیار کم پیش میاد مردی بجز زنش به زن دیگری میل جنسی نداشته باشه حتی اگر عاشق زنش باشد
    حت قبل از ازدواج
    یعنی دو تا عاشق و معشوق رو فرض کنیم
    در اینجا مرد از نظر جنس میتواند با زنی بجز معشوقه اش خیلی راحت و با حال بخوابد
    در صورت که اگر زن واقعا عاشق مردی باشد این امکان که از نظر جنس به مرد دیگری بگرایید بسیار بسیار کم بلکه غیر ممکن است


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    Quote Originally Posted by General Parsaian View Post
    مرد و زن در این مورد
    یعنی دنبال سکس گشتن با هم خیلی فرق میکنند
    زن اگر مردی رو واقعا دوست داشت امکان نداره بهش خیانت جنسی بکنه
    ولی مرد اینطور نیست
    ممکن عاشق همسرش هم باشه وواقعا اون رو بپرسته
    ولی خیلی کم پیش میاد خیانت نکنه اگر همه چیز برای خیانت کردن مهیا باشه
    مثلا همین یارو اگر بیاد به من بگه که عاشق همسرم هستم و واقعا دوستش دارم و می پرستمش من باور میکنم
    اگر رومیو و ژولیت به هم می رسیدند و تا اخر عمر رومیو به همان شکل عاشق ژولیت بود
    باز امکان اینکه مثلا با یک دختر دیگه بخوابه بود
    نه اینکه عشقق به ژولیت به سردی گراییده یا اینکه تو رختخواب حال نمیده
    اکثر زنها اینطور نیستند بلکه می توان نادر می توان یافت زنی را که عاشق شورش باشد و از نظر سکس به مرد دیگری میل داشته باشد
    درصورتی که در مردها این برعکس است
    یعنی بسیار کم پیش میاد مردی بجز زنش به زن دیگری میل جنسی نداشته باشه حتی اگر عاشق زنش باشد
    حت قبل از ازدواج
    یعنی دو تا عاشق و معشوق رو فرض کنیم
    در اینجا مرد از نظر جنس میتواند با زنی بجز معشوقه اش خیلی راحت و با حال بخوابد
    در صورت که اگر زن واقعا عاشق مردی باشد این امکان که از نظر جنس به مرد دیگری بگرایید بسیار بسیار کم بلکه غیر ممکن است

    Tamayol jensi fargh dareh ba khianat kardan ... faghat khianat be zanet ke nist, be bachehaat va khanevadat ham hast ... yaanni man hich arzeshi baratoon ghael nistam ... va faghat tamayol jensi mojeb shod ke hameh chiz ro faramoosh konam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChaharMahal View Post
    It is really natural for a dude trying to cheat. it is a primal instinct in male species to spread his genes to ensure continuity procreation of his off springs.
    It is also natural for a female to cheat. A female is biologically always in "sperm selection" mode. A more resourceful male with potentially stronger offspring creation ability can easily throw a woman off her rail regardless of her marital status. Hypergamy among females is a real social problem in the developed world these days. Just do a simple search.

    Neither gender is wired for monogamy. Not yet anyway.


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    Quote Originally Posted by General Parsaian View Post
    مرد و زن در این مورد
    یعنی دنبال سکس گشتن با هم خیلی فرق میکنند
    زن اگر مردی رو واقعا دوست داشت امکان نداره بهش خیانت جنسی بکنه
    ولی مرد اینطور نیست
    ممکن عاشق همسرش هم باشه وواقعا اون رو بپرسته
    ولی خیلی کم پیش میاد خیانت نکنه اگر همه چیز برای خیانت کردن مهیا باشه
    مثلا همین یارو اگر بیاد به من بگه که عاشق همسرم هستم و واقعا دوستش دارم و می پرستمش من باور میکنم
    اگر رومیو و ژولیت به هم می رسیدند و تا اخر عمر رومیو به همان شکل عاشق ژولیت بود
    باز امکان اینکه مثلا با یک دختر دیگه بخوابه بود
    نه اینکه عشقق به ژولیت به سردی گراییده یا اینکه تو رختخواب حال نمیده
    اکثر زنها اینطور نیستند بلکه می توان نادر می توان یافت زنی را که عاشق شورش باشد و از نظر سکس به مرد دیگری میل داشته باشد
    درصورتی که در مردها این برعکس است
    یعنی بسیار کم پیش میاد مردی بجز زنش به زن دیگری میل جنسی نداشته باشه حتی اگر عاشق زنش باشد
    حت قبل از ازدواج
    یعنی دو تا عاشق و معشوق رو فرض کنیم
    در اینجا مرد از نظر جنس میتواند با زنی بجز معشوقه اش خیلی راحت و با حال بخوابد
    در صورت که اگر زن واقعا عاشق مردی باشد این امکان که از نظر جنس به مرد دیگری بگرایید بسیار بسیار کم بلکه غیر ممکن است

    I agree ..........this applies to majority of cases ,there are min ute exception s like what Bache Tehroon says .

    Normally a woman who is in love with her husband or partner stay loyal but men who love their wives will also stay loyal to their wives but won't refuse a safe shag with a woman they fancy maybe just a one night stand ! (sorry ladies reading this !)

    However those who do love their wives and get into a romantic relationship with another woman are just plain stupid and suffer from lack of proper or adequate relationship with opposite sex when they were younger or teenagers and are trying to catch upi with their past .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bache Tehroon View Post
    It is also natural for a female to cheat. A female is biologically always in "sperm selection" mode. A more resourceful male with potentially stronger offspring creation ability can easily throw a woman off her rail regardless of her marital status. Hypergamy among females is a real social problem in the developed world these days. Just do a simple search.

    Neither gender is wired for monogamy. Not yet anyway.
    I have read research around that. and what you state has some real backers.

    There is also hypotheses that argues human being as a species became Monogamous because of the need to take of the the child.
    “It is better to be roughly right than precisely wrong”


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    Quote Originally Posted by Iran-Esteghlal-Inter View Post
    Tamayol jensi fargh dareh ba khianat kardan ... faghat khianat be zanet ke nist, be bachehaat va khanevadat ham hast ... yaanni man hich arzeshi baratoon ghael nistam ... va faghat tamayol jensi mojeb shod ke hameh chiz ro faramoosh konam.
    بله من هم خیانت رو تایید نکردم
    گفتم اکثر مردها حتی اگر عاشق زنشون هم باشن به زن دیگری تمایل جنسی پیدا میکنند
    و تو این کثریت بسیاری از انها اگر همه چیز برای خیانت مهیا باشه خیانت میکنند
    همچنین اون مردی که خیانت میکنه دلیل نمیشه که زنش را دوست نداره و عاشقش نیست یا فقط برای سکس اون رو میخواد
    م وقتی خایه ها پره مغز درست فکر نمیکنه
    البته استثن بر هر قاعده ای هست
    در این مورد هم استثنا وجود دارد

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    to lighten the mood.
    Men Wanne be alone. but we don't wanne be by ourselves.
    “It is better to be roughly right than precisely wrong”


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    Quote Originally Posted by ChaharMahal View Post
    very funny. it is well established hypothesis in scientific community that maybe, just maybe monogamy is not all that natural. it was sort of accident.
    Monogamy is neither good nor bad. it is just what it is. trying make sacred institution out of it is more like Hozie Elmieh or fundamentalist church thinking.



    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/bever..._b_867760.html
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.c7c33f992cb3
    https://www.princeton.edu/~pswpc/pdf...del/060807.pdf
    Thanks for the sources. It is still a hypothesis and not proven. Still even animals(as shown in Discovery channel) when they take care of a child, the male animal doesnt cheat and stays committed(watch Pinguin story that male and female switch time to go find food for their newborn). Or even if they dont have a child, if some1 gets close to their partner, they become gheirati/fisty like humans!(ie, lions)

    Quote Originally Posted by artavile View Post
    Thanks Nilou jan, not sure when your returned to ISP but it's so nice to see you again. Hope all is well.
    Oh thank you Artavile jan. So good to be back. I came back 2 days ago!lol Had to settle 4 divorces, 5 cheating cases and 3 children!
    NilouKia

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niloufar View Post
    (watch Pinguin story that male and female switch time to go find food for their newborn).
    زنه به شوهرش میگه میدونستی پنگوئن نر تا وقتی جفتش نیاد غذا نمیخوره و اگر جفتش بمیره با یکی دیگه جفت نمیشه؟ شوهرش میگه اوسکله دیگه , راه رفتنش رو ندیدی؟ّ ��


    پنگوئن حساب نیستش ، خدایی اسکول
    Give us another example

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    Quote Originally Posted by Niloufar View Post
    Oh thank you Artavile jan. So good to be back. I came back 2 days ago!lol Had to settle 4 divorces, 5 cheating cases and 3 children!
    Wow, that explains your long absence. No wonder you didn't have time for ISP.
    If he is our future, we are history.....

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    en che threadi hast akhe? adam sare kar miyad mikhoone, yeho haali be hooli mishe (sex or not sex???)... as usuall GP harfaash talaa hast...

    My personal opinion, if you are "Married" you are committed, weather this is natural or not, can be dabated, if you want to sleep around , then dont get married, i dont get it, why people get married and continue to fuck around ! what is the point of getting married then? you are married and horny? get a divorce, go fuck as many as your penis can handle.
    Don't pray in my school, and I won't think in your church
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    Some find their Mecca in Saudi Arabia, Some in Palestine and some in Vatican, I find mine in Madrid and I call it “The Estadio Santiago Bernabéu”

 

 

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