Have you read footbalitarin lately. Shefers daughter says she only come to Iran if Stadiums allow women to enter stadium.
You have no idea how contact between Iranians and western people change our mentality.
Any way:
Dude, are you really comparing Israel with Iran? Israel is a Jewish state in the middle of all Muslim countries who hate them. and they are allies with European countries. They do their everything with European countries. Not just football.Australia could actually contribute to Asian football by being one of the best teams. Again, how would Iran contribute to UEFA? Fifa don't have any obligation to find a place for Iran!
UEFA is a set of countries not necessarily in Europa. There are many countries who don't contribute any thing in UEFA. They don't demand Iran should look Sweden. We have a good stadium they can play in. We invest good money in football. We have border with EU countries.
I know there are still many things but I have no doubt it will take us to the right direction.