mate, its so easy to have misunderstandings on the net or over the phone.
i have met so many people from isp in real life. people like daei 24 (reza), behrang, mehran, ME, maziar, pooya, bijanD, nilou, payam, abouzar, pejman and bardia nozad, babak, naveed... all been great guys in real life. its so difficult to judge people unless u see them in real life man.