So, you are telling me that if you and your wife don't sleep around and only sleep together, and a child is born, it is possible that some other than you is the father?
im saying how can i know 100% if she is having an affair or not? or what if i do find out she was having an affair
which happens quite often nowadays, same way you pointed out there is a chance the woman would sleep with four husbands and get pregnant. but the majority of the time women can tell when they are ovulating by simply counting the days, there are obviously exceptions, but they are a minority. your whole problem is that you wont know who the father is, im telling you there are also ways like i pointed out which happen quite often that the man with four wives might not know who the father is. How many men do you think find out each day their wife was/is having an affair?
in any case, condoms and other contraceptives are widely available in Iran, so as far as the present is concerned, there should be no problems. You guys are saying if a woman wants to marry 4 men and brings a whole truck full of different contraceptives with her to the judge, then its ok to get married, did i get it right? wow you guys are some enlightened Muslims :cheers: